I miss
The way you smile at me
Your laugh
Your Touch
Your Soft Skin
Your curves
Your Quiet Voice
Your Soft Lips
Your Taste
Your Breath on my neck

The way you look into my eyes

You go back to your world. I go back to mine

It is what it is..

and although so much seems unspoken …..

Can I just say

For the record..OH man I love sex...but I won't stop so I sacrifice sleep. So I guess it could be said I love sex AND Caffeine!!...Ok I now return you to your regularly scheduled program

TMI- TUESDAY Summer Fun

1. Commando: Sexy or disgusting? Do you have a "best" commando story?

Hmm I think in general common is not very comfortable or practical. Most clothes are not designed or made for commando and therefore can be downright irritating. I can also imagine some situations where it would be really gross. I have done it, but mostly out of necessity (no laundry got done). I mean it wasn't bad and there was a certain amount of freedom, but not my cup o' tea well unless you are talking about a kilt and that is a whole other story.

2. Foreplay: Is there such a thing as too much?

I don't know that I completely understand this question when foreplay becomes too much isn't that called an orgasm?

3. Oral sex: Good if you are getting? Good is you are giving? Equally ewwwww?

Getting…Giving…I love it all really…I'd like to think I am pretty good at giving, but you never really know.

4. Orgasm: Is one per night enough or does the first one just get your motor running?
It is hard for me to orgasm more than once…very hard. I mean I keep going that is one gift I have that the "Big Kahuna" or as some of you would surely call it "my little guy" has will power and stamina. Now I will say this if you can only get me to orgasm once (which takes a while too) don't be disappointed if I don't do it again and don't assume that means I am not interested in making sure you get everything you want. However, if it does happen twice, and it has, OH MY GOD for me that is the most intense thing in the world. The second one leaves me exhausted, but oh man….

5. Morning sex: "Oh hell yes!", "Well if I have, too." or "Just get in the shower and go to work."

OH HELL YESS! I will salute you properly any morning of the week!

Bonus (as in optional): Have you ever had anonymous sex? Have you ever had an orgasm without at least knowing your partner's last name?

Yes..twice…and really I am not proud of it, nor did I find it particularly rewarding. I was young though and sex was different for me, so it is safe to say it was probably no pleasure cruise for her either.



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Now playing: Mary J. Blige - Sexy

Shibari

I am fascinated with Shibari. Well not just because of the whole submission bondage thing. I mean that idea of that level of trust and submission between two partners is a total turn on...true...but the other thing are the different types of knots and tie ups. They are like art forms. I think I would like to explore this more. I remember a friend turning me on to this a while ago (Thanks Gray) and my curiosity just grows.

Anyway I am not like a bondage, or pain kind of guy (well other than gentle biting), but I can just see where some rope play could be fun with the right person.

The Most Erotic Moment

So the question came up in my FORMSPRING..what is you most erotic moment ever? I have to admit this is a tough one because a) how do I nail it down to just "one Moment" and b) what is erotic? I mean eroticism is different for everyone. It could be anything from a scene out of 91/2 weeks for some to a simple touch for others. Some people consider sex with someone they love to be the ultimate in eroticism whole others would be anonymous sex in a bathroom. For me an erotic moment does not even necessarily have to include sex, but a lot of times it is sexual in nature.

I suppose I could include some of the weirdest places I have ever had sex as erotic, but having sex in strange places in and of itself is not necessarily erotic, but I have done it on football fields , buses, gyms and classrooms. I have done it in the middle of the aerobic floor of a health club, and of course cars. Hot tubs, pools and a mountain stream too ( a warm stream as a cold one WOULD NOT work) Oh yeah and of course in strange bedrooms in strange places as well. I have even had a threesome, but I am not sure any of that necessarily qualify as erotic.

Ok, so let's see I remember a girlfriend who made me pull a car off in the middle of a forest in the middle of no where and then gave me one of the most memorable oral experiences of my life. Then there was a time I had sex on the middle of black sand beach at sunset with no one but us and dolphins in the surf. Then one of the most erotic moments I have had that really didn't involve sex was washing each others hair in the shower together. The sensation of having someone shampoo and massage your scalp naked and soapy is fabulous!! I have also used toys on my partner, oils. and things that taste good…honey is the best, but it does get sticky. I am not sure if that answers your question, but it is as close to a compete answer as I can get.

...Or are you just Happy to see me?

I was really debating on whether this should be a long or short post ( pun intended). Seriously women if you want to know the answer is yes. Whether you are married, single, engaged, straight, gay or bi most men think about their penis size..often. Now I am not going to go into the whole psychological aspect of this. We are not going to explore the id, the ego, and the Super ego here. Nope I am just going to talk frankly about penis size and why guys think about it...heck why sometimes we are even freaked out about it, and when you are with someone new we always wonder..." Is his dick bigger than mine? " <== well unless you are Peter North or something then you probably never wonder.

So you are probably asking what prompted me to write about this topic other than ..well you know...my thoughts about the size of my penis? Well there are a lot of things actually. For example, I have read some of your blogs out there. Now none of you mention penis size in general, but I have seen posts you have made about guys with big cocks. In general, no one has chimed up and said what an awful experience it was and in fact, most of the following comments were "ooh ...ahhh...oh yes I remember my favorite big dick" . The other thing that got thinking about is a friend has told me repeatedly about some register where you can post anonymously if a guy has a tiny penis. Like some sort of registry for "Cock to Avoid". I started thinking as a man I would HATE to show up on that. I am fairly confident that I wouldn't , but if I did even if it was the most infantile thing in the world my ego would still kinda take a blow ( again pun intended).

Ok so I will get the obvious out of the way. How do I feel about my little big guy. Look this is really a self image thing right? I would say I am definitely not going to end up on any porn star casting couch any time soon. However, I have never had any complaints wait maybe?.....ok well..at least not that I know of. Actually, I have had some compliments recently from past girlfriends, and I don't know if they were just being kind or really felt that way, but hey I will take what I can get. I guess I am a pretty average in length and thicker than most, and no this is NOT going to come with a picture. As far as I know there is only one digital copy out there and hopefully that has been destroyed. The thing is I am OK with the size of my pecker. Oh and like most guys I check it every day., and I am not even sure why. I mean it is always gonna be there and at my age its not like it is gonna grow no matter what I take. However, just like some women and their boobs we often think " Oh if it were just a little bigger". This is why products like Enzyte which barely even qualify as a placebo makes millions and millions of dollars each year. I mean the idea of popping a pill and getting a bigger Johnson...who wouldn't ...right?

You see part of the problem here ( and of course the reason behind our obsession) is not only our male egos, but quite frankly we don't believe you women. You are constantly telling us size doesn't matter...."It's the magic of the user not the size of the wand" ...right? Frankly, we don't believe you. That's right we are not convinced. Part of this is driven by the porn industry one of our favorite forms of entertainment. Ever seen a small dick there?..Nope, and when a guy in one of this films whips out his anaconda the girl practically falls to it like some altar of worship. Then there are your private conversations, you know, the ones you think we don't hear or read. The ones where you and your girlfriends giggle and go "oh my" ..yeah those ones. Where you talk about the big ones and how enjoyable they were..and say things like "why didn't you share?!!" Those conversations..the ones that make us say hmmmm I wonder if they are just being nice to us?

Look I know in the end this post might seem weird to you, but really I think my musings here are pretty universal. You really want to stroke your guys ego ( again pun intended) tell him how much you like his cock. However, unless it is like really big don't lie to him about the size...He'll know ..trust me. In the end I know the biggest sex organ of the human body is between the ears, and there is so much more to great sex which involve things like chemistry, attraction, experience , and even love adds to the intensity. I also understand that Vagina's well ...they are pretty from fitting...still ya know...if it were just a little bit bigger.....

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Now playing: Shinedown - Devour

TMI - Sexual Healing

1. Name one thing that turns you on with unprecedented success.

Ok, so look if I give this away it CANNOT be used against me. However, I am going to go through the senses:

Smell - First off...I know this is cheap but seriously Wild Musk by Coty I don't know what it is but that perfume brings so many memories rushing back, sometimes when I am in the store I will smell it just for that reason and if I accidentally get some on my nose i get to enjoy that all day long!

Sight - A nice smile, beautiful eyes, nice hair ( you all know my pref) but seriously if she has nice eyes and a pretty smile and a sexy sway to her...the hair color doesn't matter. Like the curtains ever match the carpet anyway! ;-) That was for you Vixen! (inside joke)

Touch - I am very sensitive to touch. I am a very physical. The light touch of your fingertips against my face. Squeezing my leg. However, if you are kissing my neck, your warm breath in my ear, and then let your hand wander let's just say you are probably kicking me into the point of no return...

Hearing - I admit their are some voices that are sexy and some that are total turn-offs. I mean if you got that two pack a day voice forget it! And I once worked with this lady that had this high pitched squeaky voice that was like nails on a chalkboard. However, I find most women's voices appealing, but if you really want to know what does it for me its the things you whisper in my ear. I think whispering sweet nothings into someone's ear is one of the sexiest acts on the planet, and whispering in my ear before you cum..oh man that is the stuff vivid memories are made of.
2. Quick! Look around you and name 3 ordinary items that could be used sexually.

Ummm ok..my box of unused condoms..My iTunes collection ( the right music is totally sexy), lol..I am looking around and thinking "Oh crap what else" then I spy my handcuffs through my open desk drawer...duh!

3. Do you consider sex good even if you don't orgasm?

Oh yes, I have said it before...if she gets off even though I don't I am totally down with that. The female orgasm is such a powerful and awesome thing just to be a part of it is satisfying. I am a giver

4. If you could be the opposite sex for one day, what sexual position or act would you like to experience from the other side?

Hmmm ..weird,,,but I definitely I would like to know what oral sex is like from your standpoint. Anything beyond this is just too gay for me to describe and I can't do it :-)
5.Describe a sexual fantasy in 10 words or less.

A night with someone I am totally in love with


Bonus (optional): Pretend you're a doctor and a patient has come in with an "ache". What is your course of "treatment"?

A full body massage...Full oral diagnostics...of course I am repeatedly going to check your temperature with my thermometer, and finally 10cc's of Keniscillin *hehe*


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Now playing: Marvin Gaye - How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)