I was really debating on whether this should be a long or short post ( pun intended). Seriously women if you want to know the answer is yes. Whether you are married, single, engaged, straight, gay or bi most men think about their penis size..often. Now I am not going to go into the whole psychological aspect of this. We are not going to explore the id, the ego, and the Super ego here. Nope I am just going to talk frankly about penis size and why guys think about it...heck why sometimes we are even freaked out about it, and when you are with someone new we always wonder..." Is his dick bigger than mine? " <== well unless you are Peter North or something then you probably never wonder.
So you are probably asking what prompted me to write about this topic other than ..well you know...my thoughts about the size of my penis? Well there are a lot of things actually. For example, I have read some of your blogs out there. Now none of you mention penis size in general, but I have seen posts you have made about guys with big cocks. In general, no one has chimed up and said what an awful experience it was and in fact, most of the following comments were "ooh ...ahhh...oh yes I remember my favorite big dick" . The other thing that got thinking about is a friend has told me repeatedly about some register where you can post anonymously if a guy has a tiny penis. Like some sort of registry for "Cock to Avoid". I started thinking as a man I would HATE to show up on that. I am fairly confident that I wouldn't , but if I did even if it was the most infantile thing in the world my ego would still kinda take a blow ( again pun intended).
Ok so I will get the obvious out of the way. How do I feel about my little big guy. Look this is really a self image thing right? I would say I am definitely not going to end up on any porn star casting couch any time soon. However, I have never had any complaints wait maybe?.....ok well..at least not that I know of. Actually, I have had some compliments recently from past girlfriends, and I don't know if they were just being kind or really felt that way, but hey I will take what I can get. I guess I am a pretty average in length and thicker than most, and no this is NOT going to come with a picture. As far as I know there is only one digital copy out there and hopefully that has been destroyed. The thing is I am OK with the size of my pecker. Oh and like most guys I check it every day., and I am not even sure why. I mean it is always gonna be there and at my age its not like it is gonna grow no matter what I take. However, just like some women and their boobs we often think " Oh if it were just a little bigger". This is why products like Enzyte which barely even qualify as a placebo makes millions and millions of dollars each year. I mean the idea of popping a pill and getting a bigger Johnson...who wouldn't ...right?
You see part of the problem here ( and of course the reason behind our obsession) is not only our male egos, but quite frankly we don't believe you women. You are constantly telling us size doesn't matter...."It's the magic of the user not the size of the wand" ...right? Frankly, we don't believe you. That's right we are not convinced. Part of this is driven by the porn industry one of our favorite forms of entertainment. Ever seen a small dick there?..Nope, and when a guy in one of this films whips out his anaconda the girl practically falls to it like some altar of worship. Then there are your private conversations, you know, the ones you think we don't hear or read. The ones where you and your girlfriends giggle and go "oh my" ..yeah those ones. Where you talk about the big ones and how enjoyable they were..and say things like "why didn't you share?!!" Those conversations..the ones that make us say hmmmm I wonder if they are just being nice to us?
Look I know in the end this post might seem weird to you, but really I think my musings here are pretty universal. You really want to stroke your guys ego ( again pun intended) tell him how much you like his cock. However, unless it is like really big don't lie to him about the size...He'll know ..trust me. In the end I know the biggest sex organ of the human body is between the ears, and there is so much more to great sex which involve things like chemistry, attraction, experience , and even love adds to the intensity. I also understand that Vagina's well ...they are pretty from fitting...still ya know...if it were just a little bit bigger.....
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Shinedown - Devour
So the question came up in my FORMSPRING..what is you most erotic moment ever? I have to admit this is a tough one because a) how do I nail it down to just "one Moment" and b) what is erotic? I mean eroticism is different for everyone. It could be anything from a scene out of 91/2 weeks for some to a simple touch for others. Some people consider sex with someone they love to be the ultimate in eroticism whole others would be anonymous sex in a bathroom. For me an erotic moment does not even necessarily have to include sex, but a lot of times it is sexual in nature.
