So the question came up in my FORMSPRING..what is you most erotic moment ever? I have to admit this is a tough one because a) how do I nail it down to just "one Moment" and b) what is erotic? I mean eroticism is different for everyone. It could be anything from a scene out of 91/2 weeks for some to a simple touch for others. Some people consider sex with someone they love to be the ultimate in eroticism whole others would be anonymous sex in a bathroom. For me an erotic moment does not even necessarily have to include sex, but a lot of times it is sexual in nature.
I suppose I could include some of the weirdest places I have ever had sex as erotic, but having sex in strange places in and of itself is not necessarily erotic, but I have done it on football fields , buses, gyms and classrooms. I have done it in the middle of the aerobic floor of a health club, and of course cars. Hot tubs, pools and a mountain stream too ( a warm stream as a cold one WOULD NOT work) Oh yeah and of course in strange bedrooms in strange places as well. I have even had a threesome, but I am not sure any of that necessarily qualify as erotic.
Ok, so let's see I remember a girlfriend who made me pull a car off in the middle of a forest in the middle of no where and then gave me one of the most memorable oral experiences of my life. Then there was a time I had sex on the middle of black sand beach at sunset with no one but us and dolphins in the surf. Then one of the most erotic moments I have had that really didn't involve sex was washing each others hair in the shower together. The sensation of having someone shampoo and massage your scalp naked and soapy is fabulous!! I have also used toys on my partner, oils. and things that taste good…honey is the best, but it does get sticky. I am not sure if that answers your question, but it is as close to a compete answer as I can get.
I was really debating on whether this should be a long or short post ( pun intended). Seriously women if you want to know the answer is yes. Whether you are married, single, engaged, straight, gay or bi most men think about their penis size..often. Now I am not going to go into the whole psychological aspect of this. We are not going to explore the id, the ego, and the Super ego here. Nope I am just going to talk frankly about penis size and why guys think about it...heck why sometimes we are even freaked out about it, and when you are with someone new we always wonder..." Is his dick bigger than mine? " <== well unless you are Peter North or something then you probably never wonder.
So you are probably asking what prompted me to write about this topic other than ..well you know...my thoughts about the size of my penis? Well there are a lot of things actually. For example, I have read some of your blogs out there. Now none of you mention penis size in general, but I have seen posts you have made about guys with big cocks. In general, no one has chimed up and said what an awful experience it was and in fact, most of the following comments were "ooh ...ahhh...oh yes I remember my favorite big dick" . The other thing that got thinking about is a friend has told me repeatedly about some register where you can post anonymously if a guy has a tiny penis. Like some sort of registry for "Cock to Avoid". I started thinking as a man I would HATE to show up on that. I am fairly confident that I wouldn't , but if I did even if it was the most infantile thing in the world my ego would still kinda take a blow ( again pun intended).
Ok so I will get the obvious out of the way. How do I feel about my little big guy. Look this is really a self image thing right? I would say I am definitely not going to end up on any porn star casting couch any time soon. However, I have never had any complaints wait maybe?.....ok well..at least not that I know of. Actually, I have had some compliments recently from past girlfriends, and I don't know if they were just being kind or really felt that way, but hey I will take what I can get. I guess I am a pretty average in length and thicker than most, and no this is NOT going to come with a picture. As far as I know there is only one digital copy out there and hopefully that has been destroyed. The thing is I am OK with the size of my pecker. Oh and like most guys I check it every day., and I am not even sure why. I mean it is always gonna be there and at my age its not like it is gonna grow no matter what I take. However, just like some women and their boobs we often think " Oh if it were just a little bigger". This is why products like Enzyte which barely even qualify as a placebo makes millions and millions of dollars each year. I mean the idea of popping a pill and getting a bigger Johnson...who wouldn't ...right?
You see part of the problem here ( and of course the reason behind our obsession) is not only our male egos, but quite frankly we don't believe you women. You are constantly telling us size doesn't matter...."It's the magic of the user not the size of the wand" ...right? Frankly, we don't believe you. That's right we are not convinced. Part of this is driven by the porn industry one of our favorite forms of entertainment. Ever seen a small dick there?..Nope, and when a guy in one of this films whips out his anaconda the girl practically falls to it like some altar of worship. Then there are your private conversations, you know, the ones you think we don't hear or read. The ones where you and your girlfriends giggle and go "oh my" ..yeah those ones. Where you talk about the big ones and how enjoyable they were..and say things like "why didn't you share?!!" Those conversations..the ones that make us say hmmmm I wonder if they are just being nice to us?
Look I know in the end this post might seem weird to you, but really I think my musings here are pretty universal. You really want to stroke your guys ego ( again pun intended) tell him how much you like his cock. However, unless it is like really big don't lie to him about the size...He'll know ..trust me. In the end I know the biggest sex organ of the human body is between the ears, and there is so much more to great sex which involve things like chemistry, attraction, experience , and even love adds to the intensity. I also understand that Vagina's well ...they are pretty from fitting...still ya know...if it were just a little bit bigger.....
1. Name one thing that turns you on with unprecedented success.
Ok, so look if I give this away it CANNOT be used against me. However, I am going to go through the senses:
Smell - First off...I know this is cheap but seriously Wild Musk by Coty I don't know what it is but that perfume brings so many memories rushing back, sometimes when I am in the store I will smell it just for that reason and if I accidentally get some on my nose i get to enjoy that all day long!
Sight - A nice smile, beautiful eyes, nice hair ( you all know my pref) but seriously if she has nice eyes and a pretty smile and a sexy sway to her...the hair color doesn't matter. Like the curtains ever match the carpet anyway! ;-) That was for you Vixen! (inside joke)
Touch - I am very sensitive to touch. I am a very physical. The light touch of your fingertips against my face. Squeezing my leg. However, if you are kissing my neck, your warm breath in my ear, and then let your hand wander let's just say you are probably kicking me into the point of no return...
Hearing - I admit their are some voices that are sexy and some that are total turn-offs. I mean if you got that two pack a day voice forget it! And I once worked with this lady that had this high pitched squeaky voice that was like nails on a chalkboard. However, I find most women's voices appealing, but if you really want to know what does it for me its the things you whisper in my ear. I think whispering sweet nothings into someone's ear is one of the sexiest acts on the planet, and whispering in my ear before you cum..oh man that is the stuff vivid memories are made of. 2. Quick! Look around you and name 3 ordinary items that could be used sexually.
Ummm ok..my box of unused condoms..My iTunes collection ( the right music is totally sexy), lol..I am looking around and thinking "Oh crap what else" then I spy my handcuffs through my open desk drawer...duh!
3. Do you consider sex good even if you don't orgasm?
Oh yes, I have said it before...if she gets off even though I don't I am totally down with that. The female orgasm is such a powerful and awesome thing just to be a part of it is satisfying. I am a giver
4. If you could be the opposite sex for one day, what sexual position or act would you like to experience from the other side?
Hmmm ..weird,,,but I definitely I would like to know what oral sex is like from your standpoint. Anything beyond this is just too gay for me to describe and I can't do it :-) 5.Describe a sexual fantasy in 10 words or less.
A night with someone I am totally in love with
Bonus (optional): Pretend you're a doctor and a patient has come in with an "ache". What is your course of "treatment"?
A full body massage...Full oral diagnostics...of course I am repeatedly going to check your temperature with my thermometer, and finally 10cc's of Keniscillin *hehe*
If you have a question..any question you would like to ask me..you can post it in the comments of this question. You may have to log out of your blogger account first, or you can email it to me from an email I would not recognize. If someone has a better method for submitting anonymous questions please let me know.
This came from an email I have not seen before: What is your favorite sexual position?
I am not sure I have a single sexual position that is best. I like to try a lot given the chance. I wrote about some of them HERE and I even included pictures to help you out. :-)
I will say I think my very favorite sex act is 69. I love oral sex and it is mutual gratification. I guess in some way that qualifies as sexual position as well. So there ya have it.
When you receive a gift a truly special one the beauty of it consumes you. It is unexpected, unplanned, it is as sweet as any spring morning when you just lie there the grass slightly wet against your back staring at the beautiful sky wondering what the day will bring. My soul has been troubled for such a long time. I have been at unrest with the weight of my world beating down on me every day. I have been lonely, empty, longing for touch. A silent and private cocoon I built around myself to try and protect myself. One I had hoped to never emerge from in some small way.
Then your gift...I could study literature for a 100 years, I could learn every language on the planet and still I could not put into words what it meant to me. I wish I could tell you always, but I know that's not supposed to be. It's Ok and I understand, and I know you know that too. Still it is a moment in time that will always be in my mind. Etched with such permanence the indelible memory of touch, of taste, softness. of time, and of peace in my world. Other memories will come and go, and as I age some will fade into forever, but this one I hope to never see fade. It seems I have so few memories like that, but surely this is one of them.
Our river is divided and the course of life takes us in very different paths, but its OK because I will always have that gift. Still I think about how I wish I could tell you always about how it makes me smile. How intense it might be if the situation were different. As our tributaries all rush towards the ocean of life it is not unexpected that our streams might cross again, and when they do it might be all we can do is trade a smile and friendly glance. However, you will always know what is behind my smile and I yours, and I don't think I will ever be able to thank you enough. I don't think I will ever be able to convey how beautiful you were by the dim light. How over taken by emotion I was, and how my heart beat nervously in my chest. I still close my eyes and think about it all. I still smile, and i still breathe deeply and say "wow...just wow" under my breath. Thank you dear for my present it was one of the best ones I ever received.
A friend said she couldn't post this question anonymously, so she just sent to me in FB and asked if I would post it and answer it, so I guess it is not so anonymous for me. However you are still welcome to ask me any question as it outlined in the previous post by anonymously or otherwise asking it in the comments of this post or the previous one.
Question: If you had one of your many fans show up and ask you out on a date, would you go?Would you have a one-night stand, like the story you wrote about?
(She is referring to my three part attempt at erotica I just finished)
Here is my honest answer:
Yes, maybe...but there would be caveats. First off I would have to not be in any sort of a committed relationship ( which I am not in currently) and that person would have to be in a position where this would not cause them problems. So in other words all parties are in understanding. I don't want anything weird or uncomfortable and I certainly don't want to be the "other man" no way, or the deciding factor on whether someone should stay in their relationship or not.
OK now that the legal mumbo jumbo is out of the way. I would definitely go out on a date no matter what regardless of some of the caveats above. I mean I am a sociable kind of guy. I like doing fun things and I do need to get out once in a while and a date can mean many things, but mostly some conversation, some laughter, some pleasant company. I am totally down for that.
Now as for the one night stand. That's a little tougher. That generally is not my style, but I am not beyond it. I mean if all the pieces fell into place and everyone involved knew there might not be a tomorrow. It could happen. I guess my biggest worry is having expectations or weirdness the next day, and I don;t just mean with the other person. I mean I might just totally fall head over heels who knows. In the end though there would have to be some serious smiles, some serious laughs, and some serious chemistry, and who knows she could show up and be totally uninterested on her part. I guess in the end I don't want my heart to hurt anymore nor would I want that person's too either, so if I felt comfortable that wasn't going to happen.....
Yeah I could totally re-enact that fantasy. yep..yep I could
So here we are tonight You and me together And the storm outside And the fire's bright Oh, and in your eyes I see what's on my mind You've got me wild Turned around inside
Oh and then desire, see Is creeping up heavy Oh inside here And do you feel The same way as I do now Let's make this an evening Lovers for a night, lovers for tonight
Why n' stay here with me, love, tonight Just for an evening And when we will make it Our passionate pictures You and me twist up as secret creatures And we'll stay here Tomorrow go back to being friends Yeah, Oh, go back to being friends
But tonight let's be lovers, We kiss and sweat We'll turn this better thing to the best Of all it can offer Oh, this rogue kiss Tangled tongues and lips See me this way I'm turning and turning for you Ah girl, ah just tonight run away Yeah, with me for an evening Ah, just wait and see But then tomorrow go back to your man I'm back to my world And we're back to being friends Oh wait and see me Ah tonight let's do this thing All we are is wasting hours 'til the sun comes It's all ours On our way here, yeah cause tomorrow go back to being friends
Yeah, oh go back to being friends Tonight let's be lovers, oh please Tonight let's be lovers, say you will Tonight let's be lovers, oh yeah Tonight let's be lovers
And hear me call, Oh soft-spoken whispering now Well, a thing or two I have to say here Tonight let's go all the way then Oh lover I can see you Just for an evening Oh, let's strip down Trip out at this One evening's hour starts with a kiss And away yeah, then
And tomorrow back to being friends yeah And now lover, love you, yeah, Just for tonight, one night, love you, And tomorrow say goodbye Tomorrow say goodbye..
So the question came up in my FORMSPRING..what is you most erotic moment ever? I have to admit this is a tough one because a) how do I nail it down to just "one Moment" and b) what is erotic? I mean eroticism is different for everyone. It could be anything from a scene out of 91/2 weeks for some to a simple touch for others. Some people consider sex with someone they love to be the ultimate in eroticism whole others would be anonymous sex in a bathroom. For me an erotic moment does not even necessarily have to include sex, but a lot of times it is sexual in nature.
